Defenses and Bars to a Petition for Divorce
Introduction
Divorce, or the dissolution of marriage, is a legal process by which a valid marital union is terminated. While many petitions for divorce are granted by the courts, not all applications are successful. In some cases, the respondent (the spouse being sued) may raise defenses or invoke legal bars to prevent the divorce from being granted.
In Nigeria, the process and grounds for divorce are governed by the Matrimonial Causes Act, Cap M7, Laws of the Federation of Nigeria 2004. The Act provides specific circumstances under which a marriage may be dissolved and also outlines circumstances that can prevent the success of a divorce petition.
This article provides a detailed analysis of the defenses and bars to a petition for divorce in Nigeria, explaining their nature, application, legal authority, and the implications for both petitioners and respondents.
Overview of Divorce Law in Nigeria
Legal Framework: Matrimonial Causes Act (MCA)
Under the MCA, divorce petitions are filed at the High Court. A petitioner must prove that the marriage has broken down irretrievably, and this must be substantiated by any one or more of the following grounds (Section 15(2) of the MCA):
Adultery
Desertion
Cruelty
Separation for two years or more
Habitual refusal to consummate marriage
Irretrievable breakdown without the possibility of reconciliation
However, the court is not bound to grant divorce automatically, even when a ground is proven. The MCA provides for defenses and statutory bars that can either delay or entirely prevent the dissolution of a marriage.
Meaning of Defenses and Bars in Divorce Proceedings
Defenses are legal arguments or factual responses raised by the respondent to counter the allegations made in the divorce petition.
Bars are statutory provisions that prohibit or invalidate a petition for divorce based on specific legal grounds, even if the substantive facts are true.
Both defenses and bars are legal shields available to the respondent to protect the marriage or challenge the petitioner’s entitlement to divorce.
Statutory Bars to Divorce under Nigerian Law
The Matrimonial Causes Act specifically identifies three main statutory bars to filing or granting a divorce petition:
1. The One-Year Rule (Section 30 MCA)
A party cannot file for divorce unless the marriage is at least one year old.
This is a time-bar that prevents early divorce. It is intended to give newlyweds time to adjust and reconcile minor issues.
Exceptions:
Where the court grants leave to file a petition within the first year, due to exceptional hardship or depravity.
Case Example:
If a wife suffers domestic violence just three months after marriage, the court may grant leave for early filing.
2. The Collusion Bar (Section 81 MCA)
If both parties collude or conspire to present a false case for the purpose of obtaining a divorce, the court will not grant it.
Collusion includes:
Making false allegations (e.g., faking adultery)
Agreeing to stage evidence
Concealing reconciliation attempts
Why It’s Barred: Marriage is a public interest matter, not merely a private contract. Courts discourage manipulation of the judicial system.
3. The Connivance and Condonation Bar (Section 82 MCA)
If the petitioner connived (encouraged) or condoned (forgave and resumed cohabitation) the act (e.g., adultery or cruelty), they may be barred from seeking divorce on that ground.
Connivance:
Example: A husband sets up his wife to commit adultery so he can have a ground for divorce.
Condonation:
Example: A wife discovers her husband’s adultery, forgives him, resumes normal marital relations, and then later files for divorce on the same ground.
In both cases, the right to rely on that ground is lost unless a new act occurs or the condonation is revoked.
Defenses to a Divorce Petition
Apart from statutory bars, the respondent can raise various factual or legal defenses to counter the petition. These include:
1. Denial of Allegations
The respondent can flatly deny the allegations made in the petition.
Examples:
Denying adultery or claiming it was not proven
Denying cruelty or asserting it was exaggerated
Denying desertion by showing just cause for absence
In such cases, the burden is on the petitioner to prove their claims beyond balance of probabilities.
2. Provocation
In cases of cruelty or desertion, the respondent may argue that the petitioner’s behavior provoked the situation.
Example:
If a wife deserts the husband but proves that she was subjected to emotional abuse, the claim of desertion fails.
3. Reconciliation
The respondent may prove that the couple has reconciled, resumed cohabitation, and restored the marital relationship. This could defeat grounds such as:
Desertion
Separation for two years
Adultery (if condoned)
4. Petitioner’s Own Misconduct (Recrimination)
The respondent may argue that the petitioner is also guilty of matrimonial misconduct and therefore not entitled to relief.
Example:
A man alleges his wife committed adultery, but the wife proves that he too had a mistress and fathered a child outside wedlock.
Legal Principle: “He who comes to equity must come with clean hands.”
5. Insufficient Evidence
The petitioner must prove the ground alleged with credible evidence.
If the evidence is weak, contradictory, or hearsay, the petition may be dismissed.
For instance:
Adultery must be proven with circumstantial evidence, conduct, or confession—not mere suspicion.
6. Public Interest Consideration
Even where facts are proven, the court has discretion to deny divorce in the interest of public morality, justice, or the welfare of children.
For example, if divorce would:
Render one party homeless and destitute
Undermine the welfare of minors
Promote fraud on immigration or benefits system
The court may exercise its discretion to refuse the petition.
Application of Defenses in Nigerian Divorce Cases
Case Example: Ajidahun v. Ajidahun (1973)
The court refused to grant a divorce because the petitioner failed to prove desertion as required.
Case Example: Ogunoye v. Ogunoye (1972)
The husband’s divorce petition failed because he condoned the wife’s adultery by resuming cohabitation.
These cases illustrate how statutory bars and legal defenses can defeat a divorce claim, even when there is marital dissatisfaction.
Role of the Court in Assessing Defenses and Bars
The court is bound to:
Ensure that any defense raised is considered fairly
Interpret the law in accordance with public policy and justice
Use discretion to refuse divorce if it would be unjust
Even if no defense is formally raised, the court may on its own motion (suo motu) consider if a statutory bar applies.
The Impact of Defenses and Bars on Divorce Outcomes
Successful Defense
Petition dismissed
Parties remain legally married
May lead to reconciliation or fresh litigation
Unsuccessful Defense
Divorce granted
Ancillary reliefs may follow (custody, maintenance, property division)
How to Strengthen a Divorce Petition
To avoid defeat by defenses and bars, a petitioner should:
Engage a qualified family lawyer
Avoid collusion or staged claims
Gather sufficient and credible evidence
Avoid forgiving and resuming intimacy with the respondent before filing
Apply for leave if within one year of marriage
Public Policy Rationale Behind Bars and Defenses
To uphold the sanctity of marriage
To protect vulnerable spouses and children
To discourage misuse of the court system
To promote honest, transparent litigation
Criticisms of Statutory Bars and Defenses
Delays justice – Bars like the one-year rule may prolong abusive marriages
Encourages dishonesty – Parties may conceal reconciliation to avoid condonation
Outdated morality – Some argue that connivance or collusion bars do not reflect modern realities
Hinders women’s rights – Many women trapped in abusive marriages are affected by procedural technicalities
Conclusion
While the law allows for divorce based on the irretrievable breakdown of marriage, it also protects the institution of marriage by creating checks and balances through statutory bars and legal defenses. These provisions ensure that divorce is not granted lightly or fraudulently, and that both parties are held to standards of good faith and moral responsibility.
Anyone considering divorce in Nigeria must be aware of the potential obstacles that may arise. From procedural bars to factual rebuttals, the process can be more complex than it seems. With proper legal guidance, however, parties can navigate the system effectively.
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